what i dislike about christianity

i think it's the fact that when you complain about how long you've been praying and asking God for just one thing without getting answers, 90% of the time, they tell you "what if God answered and something horrible happened to you" "what if God gives you the car and you die"?

is that all your brain can conceive as to why YOUR God hasn't answered a single thing i've asked for since i was a kid? must i, due to the fear of dying not live anymore?

WHY??